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When All is Said and Done...
Cyrano de Bergerac is a character who holds his personal honor above all else. As a result of this belief, Cyrano's life is one of triumph as well as one of personal sadness. Though he "wins some, and loses some," in the end, he suggests that he is absolutely satisfied with his life as he has lived it because he has lived it honorably. You, my friend, have been asked to participate in a celebration of this honorable life by delivering his eulogy.
In this activity, you will be researching ideas in order to write a eulogy that might have been given at Cyrano's funeral. The eulogy will be written at a later day, so keep your notes.
http://www.m-w.com/
Comments: This site provides several synonyms for search words. Each synonym is linked to extensive information about the connotations of the word.
http://www.thesaurus.com/
Comments: This site provides several synonyms for search words. Each synonym is linked to extensive information about the connotations of the word.
Be sure to take note of the original
speaker of the quotes you collect.
http://www.starlingtech.com/quotes/search.html
Comments: This site provides several searchable databases of quotations, both "classic" and "contemporary."
http://ftp.sunet.se/ftp/pub/etext/gutenberg/etext98/cdben10.txt
Comments: This site provides a complete online version of the play. Students can use the FIND (within site) function built into most browsers to search for specific lines.
A eulogy might use emotional language, but it would probably not include too much that is critical of the "dearly departed." Visit Eulogies with Love for ideas on how to write a fitting eulogy. Take notes on how to write a eulogy.
http://www.funeralswithlove.com/eulogy.htm
Comments: This site provides some basic suggestions on what to include in a eulogy.
Your project will be graded using the following criteria:
First, collect the biographical facts: age, marriage dates, places lived, children, and so on. Now think about the stories you remember, or the turn of phrase or typical behavior that captures your loved one's character so well. Talk with other survivors, so the picture you present will include their ideas as well.
A theme gives unity to the eulogy, helping your listeners to see the rich patterns of this life. For example, let's say you are giving the eulogy for your late mother. As your theme, you decide to talk about your mother's ability to make a home wherever she hung her hat.
Using this theme, you describe her English childhood, her eager arrival in
Another example: When speaking of a friend, you might mention the various roles your friend successfully played: Raymond the Businessman, Raymond the Family Man, and Raymond the Winning Soccer Coach.
Write your notes in point form on sheets of paper or on 3x5 file cards - one idea to a card. Now group the cards into piles of similar topics. Then sort each pile of cards into a logical order.
Write out the first draft. (If you have access to a computer, use it to make your editing job easier.) Use linking sentences to make each topic flow easily into the next. Pay most attention to your beginning and ending.
As you write and polish, keep the words "celebration" and "thanksgiving" in your mind. If it is appropriate, include a few moments of humor or lightheartedness.
If you are not used to speaking in public, borrow a book on this topic from the library and quickly skim it to pick up some tips. Read the speech into a tape recorder and then play it back. You'll be able to polish some more. Now stand in front of a mirror and imagine you are talking to your audience.
Above all, remember to breathe. If you are afraid you might break down while reading the eulogy, ask someone ahead of time to be ready to take over at a signal from you. Just knowing you have a backup speaker will probably be all you need to stay calm.